Almost all people perform Mistakes in life. Any mistake done by any person is either the outcome of his unplanned activities or sub-consciously planned activities. Sometime it just happens, and none is to be blamed. The good thing is that every failure comes with a great lesson for smart individuals, provided it’s not too late.
Here, I have tried to share my observations about the attitude & approaches that people reflect towards the mistakes done by themselves and ones those were performed by others.
One of the most commonly observed approach is that majority acts like a judge when the mistake was done by others. However, if the same mistake was made by them, then the same person acquires role of a qualified lawyer. Truly! An impressive attitude … (Not really).
The fact remains “You must lie in your bed, the way you made it“. A mistake is a mistake irrespective of the explanations and theories you have. The most damaging things that you can do to yourself are:
- Becoming habitual
- Committing more mistakes to justify the mistake that was done in past.
- Denying reality
- Keep on arguing at the complain counter of life
- Taking them lightly
In my society, the consumption of alcohol is considered bad. I am sure that no society loves drunkards and drug-addicts. A person begins with single shot a day and then comes the time when his whole day finishes in taking shots one after the other. A person must be more cautious about making smaller mistakes that are hard to identify and might lead to some very serious trouble.
There exist a few people who can be anything, but never be wrong. This attitude provokes them to do more and more inappropriate tasks. If you have a point to prove then better prove it to yourself. Prove yourself that “You are a wise man with a very high self-esteem and not that damaging-ego”.
I have seen men arguing for hours in an attempt to prove that they were correct and it was the time, situation, somebody, or something else that was responsible. Maybe or maybe not. Still, none cares.
The million dollar question is whether the person learned something from his mistakes or not. Learning is just the part of the process and it becomes justifiable only after a proper implementation of the idea that was acquired. Denying the reality will not have any effect on the truth other than making the situation even worse.
Some say that everyone gets a second chance. How can you be so sure about the second chance? If you are, then you might not be playing wholeheartedly. Having a casual attitude towards your mistakes is “An another Big Mistake”? I know that am not sounding sweet, but please bare with me.
You need not to say is loudly that you were wrong; because the more important thing is that, you feel it from inside. What I am trying to say has nothing to do with acquiring depression or feeling low from inside. Just be in the right attitude and be aware about the reality.
Thanks for your time. Waiting eagerly to know your point of view.
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