Chanakya says that “friendship among the equal flourishes“. This is a very very true statement. For those who disagree can refer to the relationships that are sometimes confused as friendship.
- One leads while other follow like in a pack of wolves.
- One takes care while other enjoys the service.
- Relationship of a servant to a master
- And more …
As far as Chanakya’s idea for friendship is concerned; then it must be among equals and free from any sort of liability. Otherwise it cannot be considered as a real friendship.
Also, he suggests not to be too friendly because that will only ruin the things up. Another suggestion by Chanakya is “Not to share your secrets with anyone; even not with your best friend” This way you will remain on the safe side. When someday yours relationship will not be so friendly with him/her then …
So, do not give any opportunity to anyone to harm yourself. The idea seems somewhat wicked but you must remember that every betrayal came from a trustworthy fellow.
*** Better control your urge to share information. (Specially applicable for ladies)
Note: The idea here was not to betray but was to prevent betrayal. Everyone has ambition and therefore caution is required.
well, It will be interesting to know your idea. Feedback awaited…
Chanakya’s Idea about Friendship looks is about collaboration.
Lets continue with the Neeti of Saam daam dand & Bhed
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